What does it mean to dream about breaking up with someone?

Begging me to take him back…

Take him backDream:  My husband who left me four months ago came back with dozens of long stem red roses begging me to take him back???

DreamsMaster:  I see a few possibilities with this dream. First, some questions to ask yourself that may help clarify the message…

– What was on your mind the night before the dream? This is going to be key to its interpretation.

– In the dream, how did you feel when he begged you to take him back? Were you joyful? Doubtful? Confused?

– How did you feel when you woke up afterward? Sad? Relieved?

– What do long stem red roses mean to you personally? Romance? Persuasion? Manipulation?

– Have you ever received roses from him before? From anyone else? If so, how did it make you feel at the time?

Sometimes a dream is merely acting out a wish of the heart. If you went to bed longing for him to come back, the dream may be your inner mind giving you the vision of wish fulfillment.

The separation occurred a mere four months ago. The grief is fresh. It’s possible the dream is a reflection of an early stage of grief, where your heart is in denial and trying to undo the experience of loss.

There are other angles to consider as well. For example, “dozens of long stem red roses” could represent false romantic motives. And let’s not forget about the thorns. If your ex actually did want to reunite, what would it take? Perhaps the dream is a warning to not be led by false motives, and instead to look deeper into the true reasons for the separation. Above all else, stay true to yourself.

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Boyfriend wants to break up…

Break upDream:  My boyfriend telling me that he wants us to break up.

DreamsMaster:  There are a few ways to approach this dream.

First, did you and your boyfriend have an argument or disagreement the night before the dream? Did you go to bed having thoughts about him being unhappy, or have you been lacking confidence in the relationship? If so, the dream may have been somewhat literal, in that it was simply playing out in dream images what your waking mind was already imagining.

If things have been going fine with your boyfriend, it’s possible your subconscious mind has been picking up signs of discontent – on either his end or your own. For example, things may outwardly appear fine in the relationship, but the “inner detective” in your sleep pieced together some clues that were pointing in a different direction. Or, perhaps you have not been so into the relationship yourself lately, and your sleeping mind is trying to find a way out.

Only you can determine the true meaning of this dream. Ponder the possibilities I’ve written, and consider these questions as well:

– How did you feel in the dream when your boyfriend told you he wanted to break up?

– How did you feel when you woke up afterward? Same or different than how you felt in the dream?

If you’re still in the dark in regards to the dream’s message, each night this week before you go to sleep, tell yourself that you’d like more information about this dream, and keep a pen and paper by your bed to write down what comes.

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